>>16719758Feminism fucked it up for you, so you are going to have to approach men who look like they have have their shit together and ask them out on old school coffee or dinner dates and find out about them. You are going to have to get rejected and go out the next day and do it again the same way men did.
If you are fat, lose weight. If you are anorexic, eat some chicken. Unironically, don't try to doll yourself up too much or go too extreme in either direction, but think about what men are attracted to. Men subconsciously want women who are able to care and provide for children, even if they don't realize that's why they want it. Women complain about childish men without realizing some play is a shittest of motherliness men do without realizing. If a man can't have fun with you as his wife, his kids wont have fun with you as their mother. Be fun.
Get a hobby, go outside somewhere and paint that picture you've wanted to paint, follow your interests and artistic desires- that is feminine. Don't be afraid to wear pretty dresses. Do something that exposes you to men outside of work, talk to men where it is not as dangerous for them to talk to you and realize that you are a danger to men and need to sometimes walk on tip toes and earn their trust. A woman can destroy a man by calling "me too" on him and while this might limit the extreme of sexual harassment, it went too far and men now take precautions like not being in a room alone with a women, not having closed door meetings with them, etc.
Men can and do live without you, so if you want to be a part of their life you need to offer them something a hooker cant. If you want to get past the first few dates, you better be able to cook or clean or do something men don't want to do. Sex with men should not be transactional, bring something to the table besides sex. Sex should be a natural part of the relationship. If you are a virgin, it is ok to delay sex. If you have a sexual history, you must be up front with it.
