I would highly suggest you not to prolong your stay here in /bant/. People who've migrated from [s4s] to /bant/ have, for the most part, developed a much more caustic personality and have adopted a very jaded outlook on life, shutting themselves away from any opportunities for healthy relations with other human beings and engaging in self-destructive behaviour. This is not a rare occurrence at all which is why I wouldn't expect you to be an exception to this pattern.