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Quoted By: >>16809324
Its crazy that all I needed to do to be in a relationship with a girl, have sex and even have kids by now was to just be alittle bit more socially aware at those younger years in middleschool, highschool and college?
If I just didnt ignore, short one word responded, ghosted and just stared at girls talking to me until they left, it all would have been fine.
By an interval of like 4 years I learned enough social skills to have been able to succeed with the women from those 4 years ago. Even though my social skills were always far below my peers at any given moment, to have caught up with this interval would be all I had to do.
At 17 I knew what I should have said, done and how I should have acted at 13. At 21-22 I knew about all the chances I missed at 17-18, at 25 I learned about the chances at 21, and so on.
At the age of 25 I had basically "turned down" 10 advances by women from ages 13 to 25, all which could have lead to some kind of relationship if pursued correctly.
Like I said, I wouldnt have to be good at any of the social games that most people find natural, I just needed to catch up with the interval and it would have been fine, I never did.
The scary thing now at 31 is I havent had any of these revelations since age 25 or so.
I have to guess its because I interact with women so sparingly nowdays that I just havent got enough experience to to have these kind of revelations anymore.
Or the interval have increased and Im in for a big suprise in a few years of even more missed opportunities.
It just doesnt feel the same like before though. Since the only women I interact with are from work and since I work in service (massage therapy) with no co-workers then it becomes almost impossible to decipher any clients double meaning. To take their body language or wording to mean anything outside of the context of the massage room. I just cant take their smiles, them talking to me, their appreciation to mean anything romantically or I would just be a douchbag.
If I just didnt ignore, short one word responded, ghosted and just stared at girls talking to me until they left, it all would have been fine.
By an interval of like 4 years I learned enough social skills to have been able to succeed with the women from those 4 years ago. Even though my social skills were always far below my peers at any given moment, to have caught up with this interval would be all I had to do.
At 17 I knew what I should have said, done and how I should have acted at 13. At 21-22 I knew about all the chances I missed at 17-18, at 25 I learned about the chances at 21, and so on.
At the age of 25 I had basically "turned down" 10 advances by women from ages 13 to 25, all which could have lead to some kind of relationship if pursued correctly.
Like I said, I wouldnt have to be good at any of the social games that most people find natural, I just needed to catch up with the interval and it would have been fine, I never did.
The scary thing now at 31 is I havent had any of these revelations since age 25 or so.
I have to guess its because I interact with women so sparingly nowdays that I just havent got enough experience to to have these kind of revelations anymore.
Or the interval have increased and Im in for a big suprise in a few years of even more missed opportunities.
It just doesnt feel the same like before though. Since the only women I interact with are from work and since I work in service (massage therapy) with no co-workers then it becomes almost impossible to decipher any clients double meaning. To take their body language or wording to mean anything outside of the context of the massage room. I just cant take their smiles, them talking to me, their appreciation to mean anything romantically or I would just be a douchbag.
