I work with a (barely) high functioning femoid autist. She's a computer programmer. She's "smart" but she can only comprehend one solution to a problem. If she tests the solution and it fails, she gives up and moves on to something else. She's broken down and cried once, and almost a second time, during a brain-storming meeting. Luckily, our manager has been around every time she's sperged out. We can't really stop her, so we just steer the meeting away and talk about something else until she calms down. It wasn't like a femoid breakdown, where they get all "oh I'm not good enough/everything is my fault wah". We were trying to point out a problem with her plan, and she thought we were insulting her directly.
Even if she was in her 20s and smoking hot, I'd never go consider dating someone like that.
