>>17136110You can learn this through trial and error after spending your life in vain, or you can elevate to tantric levels by following these simple steps yourself.
>>17136121That is merely her reproductive instincts, your girlfriend thinks she's reproducing with you.
Coitus is a reproductive necessity that feels pleasurable in an exclusively carnal manner, and mostly to men, it is the "original sin" because we feel hormonally compulsed and manipulated into doing it, this is the root cause of post-nut clarity, the clash of our subconscious desires for transcendence with the exclusively reproductive desires of flesh, the original sin if you want to call it that. This hormonal state is caused by chemical manipulation of the body, mostly caused by processed diets that put our metabolism into a perpetual breeding drive. The more we indulge in this exclusive desire for reproduction the more we stray from the divine and transcendence.
>[3:16] To the woman he said, "I will greatly increase your pangs in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children, yet your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.">[3:17] And to the man he said, "Because you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten of the tree about which I commanded you, 'You shall not eat of it,' cursed is the ground because of you; in toil you shall eat of it all the days of your life;>>17136126They only feel any resemblance of pleasure if you practice cunnilingus, certainly not with coitus, because the female nerve density for pleasure is at its highest in the clitoris itself and not the vagina. But again, talking in such exclusively materialistic terms is a bit misleading, because pleasure is highly dependent upon emotional attachment, which is forged in a common ambition and destiny. Such relations are almost non-existent in the west and certainly not with women, else the divorce rate wouldn't be well above >50%