>>1718619I don't have much time as I'm at work but I'll try to squeeze in a few key points.
First and foremost, attitude is more important than anything else - you should be focused exclusively on pleasing your partner. If you're worrying about when it's your turn for an orgasm you're going to be crap in bed. It's really more than that though - you can't just act like you care more about your partner than yourself - you have to mean it.
Second is adaptability - different women like different things (and even the same woman will like radically different things at different levels of arousal) and what one may need to get off another will hate. Don't be afraid to ask questions about what they do and don't like, and pay attention to what seems to work - I'll grant this can be difficult when some feign pleasure, but it doesn't take too much experience to learn the difference. And don't get disheartened if something doesn't work - just laugh it off and try something else. You don't just learn to be good in bed - you learn yo be good in bed with each partner.
Third, don't worry about size. For most women there's a huge gap between "too big" and "too small" and most would prefer the latter if they had to choose between the two. The exception is size queen whores who get off on discomfort and degradation, and I wouldn't advise fucking such women in the first place for numerous reasons I won't go into here. Also penises simply aren't as important as blokes like to think - if you never go down and rush everything you're not going to please anyone no matter how big your dick is.
Last thing I have time for for now - women fucking love kissing. I'm sure there are exceptions but I've never met or heard of one yet. Start with LOTS of kissing. Also if you're not spending at least half an hour between starting this and penetration you're going to be crap. Take it slow.
Anyway back to work for me. Good luck and have fun.
