I think it's time to dump her. Ever since I started dating her I just haven't been winning aka reaching my goals. I set a plan. I always narrowly miss the target but it's still a success but the she somehow brings me back to square one in the following month.

It's not her fault, it's just shit happens all the time with her. I was on track to paying off all my debts and getting a bigger place by end of this month. At worse end of April...until she lost her job. We don't live together so now I'm stuck paying a large sum of her rent. Bought an expensive ticket to Spain for Christmas only for her mother to catch cancer. I only got about 50% of that money refunded.

It's been shitty luck like this for a fucking year that has wasted so much of my money. I'm calling it quits.