>>17448527I dated about 10 women like this in our late 20s. There was ALWAYS some 6'3'' guy stringing them along, actually probably pretty clear he wasn't into them, but they just couldn't be bothered with me because that guy was in their back pocket, er, or the other way around.
In my 30s women briefly realized that they needed to change their standards, and would put out and FUCK me, but almost always realized they maybe needed a guy with better JOB.
Women in their late 30s are so resentful, they REFUSE to even talk to dudes who don't have top 10% jobs and incomes. They're going to settle only if he's rich dammit they waited this long!
And then they end up like this dumb bitch.
I'm perfectly capable of empathy and understanding why they made the choices they did in their situations. Except, they treated me like a piece of shit, worthless and unworthy even of their mediocre pussy and somewhat troublesome personalities. And I can't forget that.
Lots of dudes talk like they're alphas "no hymen no diamond" and that dominates the discussion, but be honest, 60-80% of us are like me. Just never good enough for these holes. At least, no good enough for genuine love if that's even possible.
I don't know completely or exactly why this all happened, I just know that after 15-20 years of being treated like shit, I just can't be interested in falling in love suddenly. No, you don't forgive and forget that shit just for dried up pussy past the chance of young love or having energy to raise kids and not be retirement age at their college graduation.
No, sorry, you fucked up ladies. You were pretty consistently shitty toward us and you utterly convinced yourselves that it didn't matter and that we didn't matter. You killed love. It's not up to us to "forgive" and resurrect it. We TRIED to save it by putting up with your shit and shaking it off for 20 years.