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How do I explain to my parent that I'm antisocial

socially inept faggot ID:Mv5r6WUs Wed 16 Aug 2017 12:11:01 No.1809465 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>1809926 >>1809958 >>1810668

they always ask me why I have little to no friends, even though I'm quite popular in my new school. I just don't feel the urge to make friends, and listening in to people's conversations, it's just mundane shit people pretend to care about.

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Anonymous ID:+tFreewQ Wed 16 Aug 2017 13:26:27 No.1809919 Report

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My friend I'm just like you.

But I think that people like us are just a level above most people in terms of mental development. While I enjoy good company I don't really need it and mostly safe myself the hassle of keeping relationships with people.

It's a process that - I think - for some reason does not peak out for many people. Children need attention all the time and the feedback from their parents to ensure a good feeling about what they do/did. Normally you would outgrow this desire.

But normies still need this, while people like you and me don't need it any more and have enough self confidance to feel good about your actions without acknowledgment.

I also think this seperates the weak from the strong. There were always leaders and followers for thousands of years in our civilisation. It's a modern phenomenon that those lines aren't that clear any more and everyone has the chance to get better jobs/higher positions.

The thing is you can't just delete the mental state that got bred in people minds for thousands of years. It's the same reason why most women are not as smart/dedicated as men. By no means I am saying that all are this way, there are exceptions. But generations of staying at home and cooking is not just gone like that.

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Anonymous ID:GbRmcq8d Wed 16 Aug 2017 13:28:07 No.1809924 Report

Quoted By: >>1811531

>schizoid: low
you're fine anon

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:+tFreewQ Wed 16 Aug 2017 13:28:33 No.1809926 Report

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>>1809465
weirdly though when I took the test I got only very high risk at schizoid, everything else was low.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:U1UGnSok Wed 16 Aug 2017 13:37:26 No.1809958 Report

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>>1809465

Then why not just tell them the truth?

If you're wondering why they're concerned, it's because this behaviour is a slippery slope, and some people have been know to lose their footing. Slippery, because when you start dismissing everything that doesn't interest you as mundane, you lose a little bit of your ability to be empathetic towards others (in the way that you become uninterested in relating)

The other thing is: This behaviour can hide deeper hurts-- some people push everyone away because they're terrified of intimacy and being vulnerable. It's not necessarily because you're smarter.. it's actually a defense mechanism.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:ro+Oefig Wed 16 Aug 2017 15:17:12 No.1810448 Report

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Go get checked by a real psychologist. Don't trust the internet tests

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RQUf7Ke1 Wed 16 Aug 2017 15:56:09 No.1810668 Report

Quoted By: >>1810680

>>1809465
Link?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:3RIL149n Wed 16 Aug 2017 15:57:32 No.1810680 Report

Quoted By: >>1810696

>>1810668
you should have all very high norway bro i know what issues you have

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RQUf7Ke1 Wed 16 Aug 2017 15:57:49 No.1810683 Report

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Also go to a psychologist because your parents aren't going to believe an online test

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:RQUf7Ke1 Wed 16 Aug 2017 15:59:27 No.1810696 Report

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>>1810680
I am not Norwegian.
Tho People here seem to be normal and happy just a little introverted

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:JgZK7w8w Wed 16 Aug 2017 18:14:10 No.1811531 Report

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>>1809924
I'm fucked?

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