>>18254927i don't really know, anon, i'm still trying to figure that out myself. something that i am figuring out though, is that we have more urgency in our lives than we can choose to believe. you see, our lives aren't just pushed forwards by fate, but by our own conscious actions. they're built up through the thought patterns we engage in, and the habits we accumulate. not just circumstance. when you realize this, then the answer lies inside of you, that if you want something more out of life than just the "eternal recurrence", you just have to push through the fear standing in your way and live the life you want to live. there is no ultimate secret because you already have all the answers.
i think people kinda exist in 3 states, not sure if they actually do, but it's just how i conceptualize life. the first is a growth state, where they push themselves outside of their comfort zone to learn something new and unlock more of their potential. the second is a stagnant state, where they stay inside their comfort zone, rarely taking risks and doing what's most convenient for them. the third is the degeneration zone, where if they stayed in the stagnant zone for too long, they end up forgetting things and atrophy. i think a lot of people feel "stuck" in their lives because they don't realize they're in a stagnant/degeneration zone, and while this zone isn't bad by itself, it doesn't lead to a lot of engagement out of life. you eventually get bored, or even worse, depressed. the only way forward is to challenge those fears holding you in place, and accept change into your life.
it's just my flawed philosophy on things, so don't take it too seriously. this is just what helps me get through my day and become more of what i wanna be. i don't think it's worthy advice for everyone because people are in different points in their life, and if they don't see the point in change, you can try to show them a different way of life, but there's no use trying to change them.
