I'm 36, single, have dated a few women over the years, have had sex (not a virgin). But every woman I meet is either fat, or isn't interested in me. I've got it together in my life. Good career, house that is nearly paid off, car that is paid off. I am a bit chubby but working on it (I walk and lift weights 3x per week).

Am I just not going to the places where women approach men? Should I join a gym? Go to a bookstore? I used to meet women through my friend circle but all my friends have moved out of my area.

I see men and women getting married having kids and it sucks knowing I will never have that.