>>18456072Insecurity and laziness. They think that lifting weights will make them feel complete by making them cool and desired
Lifting weights is only part of the equation. It's supposed to make you more confident so you can work on your personality. You should lift weights for yourself to not be a bitch. Women arent impressed by big muscles. Theyre impressed by the usage of big muscles to achieve tasks or solve problems. Muscles that are too big turn girls off. Girls are never turned off by strength. Lifting weights usually wont turn them on unless you're the strongest guy there but being strong enough to toss them around or to protect them is desirable
Guys nowadays reach natty limits and then still feel like shit so they jump on roids, or they realize getting fit takes a long time so they take a shortcut
Natty limit for strength gains is much higher than for aesthetic hypertrophy gains. Nattys can still deadlift 700lbs or bench 500lbs if they work hard
Really the gym should be a meditative experience to get your mind together through hard repetitive work. This will help you build your personality and confidence. Those two traits are the ones girls care about more than anything