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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 07:49:43 No.18630162 View View Reply Original Report

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>just talk to girls bro
WTF DO I SAY? HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO GO TALK TO RANDOM GIRLS?????
>you're in college, girls are everywhere and waiting for you to talk to them
WTF???? THIS NEVER HAPPENS

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 07:52:27 No.18630163 Report

Quoted By: >>18630179

>>18630162
join a club that forces you to socialize
speech and debate is a good one for 4chan autists just dont reveal your powerlevel too much

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 07:56:53 No.18630164 Report

Quoted By: >>18630165 >>18630173

>>18630162
just be chad https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0wccYbZYp0

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:02:58 No.18630165 Report

Quoted By: >>18630167

>>18630164
Will you gypsy stop being homosexual for ONE thread?

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:04:38 No.18630166 Report

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>>18630162
hot

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:06:04 No.18630167 Report

Quoted By: >>18630173

>>18630165
how is it homosexual exactly

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:06:52 No.18630168 Report

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:12:17 No.18630169 Report

Quoted By: >>18630171 >>18630182

>>18630162
I don't understand how dudes can go to college and work and not get laid. I dropped out of high school in 9th grade and never left the house so it took me a while but as soon as I started to socialize, I got laid.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:24:04 No.18630170 Report

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>>18630168
Hot but part of a kind of psychosis:

https://psychcentral.com/blog/recovering-narcissist/2019/03/narcissists-use-trauma-bonding-and-intermittent-reinforcement-to-get-you-addicted-to-them-why-abuse-survivors-stay

Intermittent reinforcement (in the context of psychological abuse) is a pattern of cruel, callous treatment mixed in with random bursts of affection. The abuser hands out rewards such as affection, a compliment, or gifts sporadically and unpredictably throughout the abuse cycle. Think of the violent husband who gives his wife flowers after assaulting her, or the kind words an abusive mother gives to her child after a particularly harsh silent treatment.

https://kimsaeed.com/2018/10/09/the-wounded-child-7-needs-narcissistic-parents-cannot-provide/

All children need to experience the inherent sense of universal security and love. They must know and feel that they are worthy and loved- no matter what they do. Unconditional love provides children with a healthy form of attachment to their caregivers, and it also provides them with the self-esteem needed to succeed in the world.

The narcissistic parent does not provide that love.

Instead, they often oscillate between love-bombing (when the child is behaving according to the narcissist’s standards) and complete discarding (when the child is acting otherwise).

In other words, love is conditional. It’s based on how the child can fit the needs of the narcissistic parent. It’s based on what the child does and gives- rather than who the child is. And it can change instantaneously.

You can see how this creates a conflicting paradigm throughout childhood. Children cannot anticipate the emotional reactions of their parent. They never know if it’s going to be a good or bad day. And, furthermore, they never know what kind of love (if any) they will receive.

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:27:58 No.18630171 Report

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>>18630169
Current stats show that most guys in college no longer get laid.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:31:45 No.18630172 Report

Quoted By: >>18630175

>>18630162
>>you're in college, girls are everywhere and waiting for you to talk to them
>WTF???? THIS NEVER HAPPENS
women dont approach guys usually but they will walk across an empty room and take a chair next to a guy then look everywhere but him hoping he will break the ice and talk to her.

Anyways, the best way to learn to talk to women if you are too scared to is to just talk about whatever and crash and burn until you arent afraid of crashing and burning anymore.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:44:33 No.18630173 Report

Quoted By: >>18630174

>>18630164
>>18630167
>first he spammed voll
>got cucked
>now he spams male fashion models
>becomes a faggot
Next step is trooning out.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:45:02 No.18630174 Report

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>>18630173
keep following me around like my submissive dog on a leash that you are

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:49:49 No.18630175 Report

Quoted By: >>18630176

>>18630172

This is true. This super cute girl deliberately took her seat next to me hoping I'd talk to her. Nope. I had colored hair at the time, so she dyed her hair hoping I would talk to her about it. (I didn't). She dropped her pen right next to me in hopes it would get me to talk to her. That didn't work either.

So, I get it. Just talk to them. Open mouth, insert foot. Practice a few jokes.

>>18630162

BUT MOST IMPORTANT IS THIS: BE INTERESTED.

The best way to be interesting is to be interested. "What's your name?" "I like your x, where did you find it?" "I've been thinking about y, but I'm not sure. What do you think?"

Shit's easy.

also, sage.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:50:42 No.18630176 Report

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>>18630175
gee thanks for the advice chad

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:56:18 No.18630177 Report

Quoted By: >>18630184

>>18630162
Just go outside with a small dog, or worse, a cute puppy, and they'll approach you.
I did this by accident, and holy fucking shit, I couldn't walk 10ft without girls accosting or swarming me; then they're all wanting to chit chat and have long-running conversations and shit. And I'm an ugly incel.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 08:59:59 No.18630178 Report

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>>18630162
>Mother & Son
KYS fucktard.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:00:09 No.18630179 Report

Quoted By: >>18630180 >>18630181

>>18630163
Based and true. At least back in my day speech and debate girls were all borderline autistic gf material but also slutty as hell. All you had to do to get with one was be slightly less spergy than the other spergs at by your debate meet and they'd hop on your dick like you were Chad thundercock. Mind you this was before smart phones and dating apps but the general culture still probably applies. These chicks are sniffing out for future congressman dick so if you're the least bit charismatic amongst a meeting full of autistics you're set.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:06:40 No.18630180 Report

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>>18630179
>this was before smart phones and dating apps but the general culture still probably applies
>probably

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:08:53 No.18630181 Report

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>>18630179
>this was before smart phones and dating apps but the general culture still probably applies

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:11:29 No.18630182 Report

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>>18630169
I think it's a generational thing anon. I started college when smartphones and tinder were still brand-new so the harsh 80-20 rule hadn't really kicked in. An average looking dude could still get a girlfriend or get laid pretty easily. It wasn't until about the mid 2010s that people started noticing that average guys couldn't get laid anymore, like at all. It was a very quick shift thanks to kike phones.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:19:25 No.18630183 Report

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>>18630162
That's his mum btw

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:22:20 No.18630184 Report

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>>18630177
They would rather fuck that dog fyi

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Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:38:07 No.18630185 Report

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>>18630162
this thread stinks of Oedipal Complex

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 09:44:24 No.18630186 Report

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>>18630162
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STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

STOP REPLYING TO OFF-TOPIC GARBAGE, YOU FUCKING CUNTMUFFINS
>SAGE AND REPORT ALL SLIDE THREADS

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 10:10:23 No.18630187 Report

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>>18630162
print cards with your name and phone number on them and a public activity you would enjoy doing with them and give them to girls you think are pretty.

Anonymous

Anonymous Thu 07 Sep 2023 10:14:45 No.18630188 Report

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>>18630162
That's his mom

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