>>18678275Go back to the man you once were.
Seduce your wife again by treating her as a companion on your journey while still valuing and encouraging hers.
Don't ask for sex, set it up and initiate it while dancing on the line between consent and rape. If she rejects it forcibly or multiple times, leave altogether and go do something else: it doesn't affect you.
If after multiple attempts during multiple days the results are still the same, you've failed: either consider divorce or suicide if you believe to not be capable of doing it all over again.
Females are emotional animals that should be treated as such, marriage is an institution built to contain and restrain them while making good use of the potential resources they provide.
Fun fact: your glans is shaped that way so you can scoop out other men's semen from the female's vagina, see the issue? Marriage is "the only way" to ensure sexual exclusivity, that the kids are really yours, that your genes have been passed on. But it only works as long as adultery is severely punished and the woman is effectively your property with no hope of accomplishment outside family life; but I guess they didn't quite like that deal, figured paying taxes is better.
The redditor relinquished his right to make choices to his wife, his desire to please her has turned him into an eunuch. It's not the way it should be, you take from her what you need, you please her to ensure she's getting a good deal.
His approach with women failed the moment he thought the world cares about him; that all the emancipation, feminism and equal rights propaganda will have positive outcomes in his relationship.
And by the way, when she's undecided, doesn't know what to eat, doesn't know what to do: just make the choice for her and stick to it, it's a test.
But I guess the redditor only ever managed to sleep with her, and got stuck. He probably lacks both the experience and the testosterone needed to do the things I've mentioned.
