>>18972372modern society hates autonomy and will try to abuse and destroy it. never let your autonomy be your weakness so consider what you gain and lose with each interaction. the moment you sense immediate losses or a setup to future losses, just bail, say no, go elsewhere, find different people, and stick to what you know will help you. bad/corrupted persons/people is the biggest concern and finding good people has become hard to the point where even the attempt becomes a loss. i wouldnt try to actively find good people but rather just passively stay aware of whats around me and hold on to them if they ever drift by
