As a black man with a 5 inch penis I'm really annoyed at the BBC memes. I am tired of having to tell every girlfriend to lower their expectations before we have sex. It makes me feel like I'm inadequate and unable to satisfy my woman, the memes are giving women a false impression of reality. What am I supposed to say? I can try and show her that it's a stereotype, but she'll just laugh me out of the room. I feel bad for disappointing so many women, even though I did nothing wrong, society lied to them, not me. Even though It's not my fault, I still feel anxiety and inadequacy whenever I have to pull down my pants and show them for the first time. Seeing their excited faces turn into ones of repressed disappointment always kills me, I am not even sure how much of their reaction is real and how much of it is in my head, it drives me crazy, and makes me want to give up dating. Just needed to vent, because I keep seeing y'all talking about this stuff like it's a joke to you.