Hey OP, was in the same exact situation as you until I was 30.. then I found the love of my life. nice stable beautiful blue eyed girl. nice chubby buns and she loves receiving loads in her pussy, ass and mouth. School teacher. Down to earth. Keeps the house spotless all the time and gave me my two sons which we've been raising throughout our thirties. I'm 39 now, make 150k a year because I worked hard to get where I am at. she's at home with the kids and does some side gigs for money once in a while, mainly focuses on raising our children right. We have our own house, two nice cars.. and I have enough money for a nice snowboard vacation or trip to the beach a couple times a year plus any food or material object I could ever want. It's literally a perfect life man, and it all began at age 30. Don't listen to newfags, or demoralizers trying to slide your existence.. you have a lot of life to live. 30 was the beginning for me. You do have to put in some work, and make yourself worth a shit to a girl, and you better treat her right when you meet her.
Oh, and yes we met on a dating site... Just make your profile say you want serious relationship and when you meet clarify you want stability and no mental issues.. and do nice shit for her and buy her shit and don't be a cringy edgelord and it's smooth sailing from there.