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Hello everyone, my name is Temirlan and I am from Kazakhstan. For the last 3 years, I have been living with thoughts of suicide, due to the fact that I lost many people close to me (my brother, father and mother in an accident 3 years ago and a girl a year earlier). At first, I was restrained by the thought that I wanted to help my close sister and did not want her to grieve even more. I had large debts exceeding $9,000 that were left over from my parents, so it was a difficult period for me. And now I'm already at the bottom and on the verge of suicide, I think about it every day and try to think positively, because I still have a little sister. But I am still under pressure from the guardianship authorities due to the fact that we have poor living conditions, if this happens, then I will definitely fold my hands and give up. I hope for your support, if there is work, I am ready to work. Give me some advice from my telegram: @swuter
Anonymous
Wish I could help you. It's better if you share this in a more local site. I think you shared emails with another Kazakh here last time, though, r u still talking with him
Sweet
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>>19444290 Thank you very much for your support, yes I tried to contact him but it didn’t work
Anonymous
What was the debt for? What was the accident?
Sweet
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>>19444556 There were several loans for different purposes (treatment and an attempt to buy an apartment), but after the accident where everyone died, I sold everything I could to organize a funeral and close some of the loans
Anonymous
Could you have chosen not to inherit the debt
Sweet
>>19444606 I wish I could do that, but unfortunately it works the other way around.
Anonymous
>>19444614 that sucks, in my country and I think most European countries you can decide if you want to inherit or not
Anonymous
you made this thread before, did you manage to find something to help you or are you still stuck? as youve been told in the previous one you knowing english and having some programming experience should allow you to score a job also werent the guardianship police about to take your sister away from you? at this point i hope you are just trolling because its a very sad situation if real
Sweet
>>19444645 My knowledge is not enough to get a job at the moment, since many IT specialists moved to our country from Russia since the start of the war, and this story is not a joke, I can make a video call or provide evidence. I was able to get a reprieve from the guardianship authorities, and if in a couple of days I don’t improve my living conditions, then that’s it
Sweet
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>>19444619 I always thought if I had been born with my family in another country, everything might have turned out differently.
Anonymous
>>19444659 They will take away your sister? To where? Will you be able to get her back in the future? Do these debts have interest?
Sweet
>>19444674 She will be taken away by the guardianship authorities, in our country, in the terrible conditions of orphanages. There were cases of rape and death. There is interest on the loan, but I don’t remember what
Anonymous
>>19444700 Does she know about all of this? Will you be able to visit her every day?
Sweet
>>19444715 She knows about everything and asks me not to leave her to them, my helplessness is killing me. I will be able to visit her, but if something happens to her there, I won’t forgive myself
Anonymous
>>19444892 Where do these loans come from, banks? Was there not a some sort of insurance against the case of death?
You are doing everything you can, your sister loves you. Some things are just out of our control.
Temirlan
>>19446120 From the bank, but unfortunately there was no insurance. Thank you for your support, I’m trying my best but I’m already at the very bottom and don’t know what to do
Anonymous
>>19446130 What would happen if you declared bankruptcy?
Sweet
>>19446142 If I do this, my little sister will definitely be taken away from me because of this I can’t go bankrupt.
Anonymous
>>19446170 I think your only chance to save your sister in this short amount of time would be to post and ask for help in local forums and Twitter or something
I don't think there's anything else you can do to save her from ever going there. The other best course of action is to declare bankruptcy and work until you can get her back. Try to constantly visit her and maybe find her a family you can trust? Sorry man. This is all I can think of.
Sweet
>>19446188 Thanks for the advice, can you suggest forums and platforms?
Anonymous
>>19446197 Twitter and Reddit subreddits maybe. Whatever is popular in Kazakhstan, really. Shouldn't matter too much.
Sweet
Anonymous
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>>19444282 >For the last 3 years those are rookie numbers
Anonymous
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>>19444659 did you try at least? i said it before that even if you dont have enough knowledge you should still apply, literally just apply to everything, it doesnt hurt and theres a chance someone will hire you