im afab. sometimes i want to be a man but usually im comfortable as a woman. i sometimes find myself wanting to appear androgynous. idk if i should just call myself cis f and dress however or if i should ask people to call me different pronouns by the daily. i dont want to stand out too much, im scared. most people don't even know im bi because of this fear of being ostracized for being lgbt. i dont even like using the flags in picrews so i cant imagine having to come out about my gender. if im genderfluid what do i do now?