>>19479393>have to settlethis is why you will never have a gf. You have the same thing in your head as a lot of women do. Where they believe everyone has a soul mate that they are the most compatible with and 100% meant to be together. Women leave good men when they do this for dudes they find more exciting in the moment, not all, but this is the mechanism for what you observe.
For men like you, it manifests as never getting laid because you look at every woman for her flaws first and foremost (it doesn't help you're probably a porno addict). So then you never feel motivated to ask one out or talk to them, because you got it in your head that all women are whores, and that IF there is one meant for you, you will magically know when you see them for the first time. This is how love FEELS, but it is not how love WORKS. If you gave it a chance, you would absolutely fall in love with a 3/10 chinese lady as long as you like her personality.
Of course, youre a paid shill so idk why i typed this anyway. Herbs. Incels, you guys are my homies. I want to see you thrive. But being salty like this is not the way. The women you want to date unfortunately, probably, live in the middle of nowhere, which is its own challenge. Just find someone you think doesn't lie all the time. That's the most important thing.