The mother Mothers ruin themselves not because they seek to ruin themselves but because they do not understand the limits of their responsibility, the limits of their duties towards their children. Mothers ruin themselves because they are afraid of making mistakes, because they are afraid of not giving enough, because they are afraid of not succeeding in what they have undertaken. They ruin themselves because they doubt their judgment, a judgment that could appear to them to be the result of an error. How can a mother, if she ruins herself, carry out balanced work in her environment, in her family, a real work of love, healthy work, both for herself and for her children? How many times must we repeat that human beings are so conditioned by forces, by opinions, external to themselves, that they no longer have the capacity to act according to principles which are personal to them, which are vital to him, and which reflect what he must do, what he must manifest in his interaction with others. Mothers, women: the emotional being of society easily blames itself for everything it does, because it is not capable of seeing precisely the perfection or imperfection of what it does, because that she has precisely lost all form of centricity, she has lost the sharp point of intuition which directs action, she has lost faith in her personal judgment. It’s a serious situation, it’s a sick situation, it’s an exhausting situation, for thousands, thousands and thousands…. of mothers.mothers have lost faith in their judgment because they no longer have the power to realize for themselves whether they should in one case or another apply firmness, gentleness or grievance.