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Can I make it bros?

Anonymous Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:38:00 No.19745402 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>19745403 >>19745486 >>19746119

>met a girl a couple years ago
>she has pale skin and blue eyes
>is super clingy
>Is a VIRGIN
>wants to get married and be a stay at home mom
>wants to take my name and have atleast 3 kids
>STILL TOGETHER

Does this mean I made it, Anons? Tell me what can I do so I won’t screw this up pls. I am fucking dirt poor and short, but for some reason God is smiling at me.

Anonymous

Anonymous Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:40:26 No.19745403 Report

Quoted By: >>19745561

>>19745402
get a good paying job
get married
have kids

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:idVXFNhh Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:42:00 No.19745486 Report

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>>19745402
moved to /bant/ kek

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xqRNYbBu Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:42:30 No.19745560 Report

Quoted By: >>19745624

>>460918931
anon wife her up immediately. do it at your earliest convenience. i am not you and don't know your situation but basically you are on the verge of having made it. you are currently making it.
do whatever to get married and support yourself and the family you will be creating

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:llNPfHhI Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:42:45 No.19745561 Report

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>>19745403
I know. I'm just a bit afraid a lot of people in my country can't support a family with a single income.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:llNPfHhI Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:44:43 No.19745624 Report

Quoted By: >>19745672 >>19745673

>>19745560
I know early is better but I am just 20 years old. What if I screw up and ain't ready for it?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:U0HFNapi Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:54:47 No.19745672 Report

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>>19745624
You will be fine. If you make your intentions known to her, and if she's a Godsend like you say, then she will accept you for who you are and will support you in your pursuit of building up your career. But it's important that you seal the deal.

>t. 31yo boomer who dated someone for far too long (6 years) and finally got dumped because I was a poor bastard who didn't have a stable career, and we had some differences in religion/family background/what we wanted out of life. But I'm thankful for my 21yo gf now, and never gonna repeat these mistakes again.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xqRNYbBu Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:55:12 No.19745673 Report

Quoted By: >>19745684 >>19745744

>>19745624
if she is also up for it then you have basically nothing to lose. if both of you are serious, then you're not "rushing it."
most people throughout history just had kids and figured the logistics out later. its a very modern thing to hold off on kids until you're "ready".
you work on making yourself ready after you commit. not the other way around, because the truth is that you are never really 100% ready, but you still do it anyway. thats just life in general. if you wait for the perfect moment its never going to come.
https://substack.com/@becomingnoble/note/c-50887718
godspeed

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:U0HFNapi Wed 06 Mar 2024 23:57:13 No.19745684 Report

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>>19745673
also yea, what he said. don't wait to be 'ready' for something. just go with it and it'll all fall into place as you go along. Just don't lose your footing and stay focused & determined

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:gqSt8wJC Thu 07 Mar 2024 00:00:23 No.19745705 Report

Quoted By: >>19745721

don't have kids at 20 retard. wait atleast 4 years.
Concentrate on being a somebody in the meantime, don't be a loser, don't be an npc. Be confident, earn your stripes, become the boss.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:llNPfHhI Thu 07 Mar 2024 00:03:50 No.19745721 Report

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>>19745705
but what should be the target? A stable 9-5? six figures? A business of my own?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:llNPfHhI Thu 07 Mar 2024 00:08:31 No.19745744 Report

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>>19745673
Thanks man. This gives me a lot of encouragement. There's too many people who say that it is too early but I know that society has gone to hell because of them in the first place.

There's also the blackpill guys saying that it will end horribly anyway.

I guess I'll have to try to pop the question soon and try my luck.

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:xkeHf4Ao Thu 07 Mar 2024 01:22:25 No.19746119 Report

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>>19745402
She's getting blacked by dt as you make this thread

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