>>19767676>personal careDo all your fucking chores, don't live like a slob, don't do it for other people so you look and smell nice, do it for yourself. Most people don't actually shower every day, they live shit lying around everywhere, their houses smell terrible. It is easy to avoid this and it automatically places you above most.
>fitnessThis is also easy and elevates you. You are pushing 40, so basically it is time for you to give up candy for good. Anything with sugar, just don't take it off the shelf, walk to the next aisle. /pol/ is basically right about diets, meat and fat isn't bad, vegetable oils are le bad, too many carbs can also be le bad. You also need a lot of antioxidants, which you can get from colorful food like beetroot.
>moneyKeep working, even if it is just a meme small business where you work at home. Just something you can learn and work on, make this your avocation rather than nerdy hobbies, playing vidya into your 40s is like those sad old men who built massive train sets in their attic then died and it was all thrown out. Just don't be like that, it's not good, keep working in some capacity until you are 65 or so. Learn to be rational when making investments, for example I buy the dip with bitcoin, I never buy at a time like this, even with shill telling me it is going to the moon. It is like the roulette wheel, you might double your money, or lose 70% of it, you don't gamble, you only buy when it is almost certainly a sure thing.
>socializingYou are in a difficult situation, women you can realistically enter a relationship with for a few years then marry and raise a family with are going to have to be much younger. Obviously society disapproves of older men going after younger women, but you don't have many choices. However it is a big wide world, I would recommend avoiding memes like becoming a "passport bro" or going to Thailand, search more widely for hidden gems.
>psychologyLet go and shit, it works. 90% of you is emotion.
