>>19871885Like anything on /pol/, there's a legitimate acorn of truth that shitposters grind up and use to flavor their shit.
Fappers off the deep end of fapping hard-wire their brains to respond to the wrong stimuli. It's that simple. Been there, done that.
The bad part is it shows all over your behavior, psychologically and even physiologically. You eventually develop permanent post-nut clarity and become desensitized to the naked woman; your cock and balls answer only to stimulation (hence BJs). When you nut yourself into a philosopher's state of mind (sans the knowledge of the Forms) by excessive fapping, you pavlov-reflex your brain to prefer behavior that doesn't attract fertile women.
When I first fucked a woman, yes I was late to the party and past my teen years, I nutted first in 10s flat, and then on my second round I kept going for an hour getting nothing done. Like, she even came, but at that time my whole body was sore, so I just wanted to awkwardly go like "y-you're welcome, a-and-d t-t-thanks. I'll stop now". My luck was that while I was a virgin, she was the town bicycle - she laughed it off for me, told me I watch too much porn, pulled me into a bear hug of an embrace, leglocked me, and told me "love simple: just thrust. Just love me". Kept telling me to go faster (ok) harder (I was so sore around my hips), deeper (I was already giving it all :-( the length I had). After 20 minutes of hard work, I nutted, she came, and in the end, I also had a laugh with her.
That experience sent me on the path of self-improvement and nofapping. I had to heal my sexual function with women, it was slow as hell. Having a fuckbuddy who is a good enough friend to literally donate her own pussy to help you become normally functional again helps heaps.
Fucking a woman made fapping obsolete anyway.
That is why excessive fapping is bad and excessive pussycooming is fine
>>19871968Reach out and we can beat it together