>>19941891>why are they like this?Because they have a Western mentality while at the same time never being accepted as Western or white, so they cling so some fetishized, caricaturized version of whatever Asian culture and society their parents/grandparents were from. Basically imagine a white dude who only knows about Asian culture through movies and anime, but also looks Asian and knows he'll never be accepted by either culture.
That's what most Asian Americans are and they're maximum cringe.