>>19942364people say this, but to me, sex is supposed to be a merging, a joining and a union, not an exercise in contrast. If anything, if you're spending so much time on the visual, you're missing the point. I've had sex more times than I can count, but I barely remember any visual parts of it. Feeling and spiritual union are king, making it about look is just a shallow animal trash thing to do.
And then to pursue a look that reminds you how different the two are. Purely the product of a broken mind.
