Long story short a year ago I discovered find my iPhone on my phone. It had my wife’s location and I could see where she is on a satellite map. I started to use it for knowing when to make dinner or when my kids asked when she gets home. I never told her about this app.

Fast forward a year later which was a month ago she went out of state for 4-5 days for work. I found some deleted texts between her and an older coworker. Guessing 8-10 years older so hes maybe around 50. She sent him a picture of her in the bathroom smiling. She also sent a photo with her two bosses and a couple other people at the event. Then she texted him and said I wish you were here. My mind just effing erupted. I held my composure till the next evening and asked if she had ever hid anything from me or had feelings towards anyone and she denied it. Said she’s never cheated on me. She is the boss of this guy and a couple weeks before this she was telling me how the owner and president want to fire him but she is fighting to keep him there. She even told me how this guy reminds her of her dad! So it’s been a couple weeks and I’m still not getting hardly anything in bed from her which I told her needs to change. I’m starting to get more pissed about it. I just had to get on here to vent bc it’s all I think now and it’s pissing me off.