>>20289386datings apps suck, for me. Also I used to stutter and had terrible social anxiety. A performing arts workshop (theatre, in this case) + sports helped me get where I'm today.
I do much better IRL, you just have to put yourself out there, coffees, events, concerts, whatever nerd stuff you enjoy. You can already see what women look like, and while chatting you'll figure out pretty quickly if they are engaged or are single mothers. Approach groups, be nice/funny and not a drunktard or weedaholic. I found great success not drinking alcohol but instead having coffee at nights.