>>20287084>How do I get started for some casual latin? "Social/Club" latin (e.g., salsa, bachata, merengue, kizomba, zumba) might be your bag. There are a lot of clubs out there for those sorts of dances, and all vary wildly. That said, it's probably your best shot: it's pretty much worldwide, and you can likely find a studio/club that fits your needs.
>Is casual dancing even a thing or are they all tryhards?At most clubs (and even at most studios), I'd say it's 70% casual, 20% people who are good and chill, and 10% try hards. In other words, I wouldn't worry too much about it. The important thing is to find the vibe you like.
>What should I look for?Basically, what you feel most comfortable with. If I were you, I'd check out at least (1) the biggest salsa/bachata club in your area, (2) at least one "Latin night" type event (they usually pop up on fb/Eventbrite), and (3) at least one studio. Between those three, you should probably be able to find the vibe you like. The more young/happy/talented people, the better.
Stuff to avoid:
- If the teacher(s) are pricks. For example, if they try to show off too much, obviously take the attractive girls for themselves, etc.
- If the venue is creepy, low-rent, or just a shitty club masquerading as a dance night. In other words, if real-ass dancing isn't happening.
- Whether you feel like you're improving. If everyone sucks, you're never going to improve.
- Places with "cuddle rooms" etc. (increasingly common, evinces creeps)
That said, keep in mind you'll need to come a bit humble. Don't go tryhard, laugh at yourself and be social. Also, if you find cool people, offer to drive them/carpool - it's a quick way to make friends in that scene.
>The thing that I really hate would be to have to dance in heelsNo need. The new hotness is "dance sneakers" like Fuego (
https://fuegodance.com). You could even use dress shoes (leather soles would be better for spins).
