randomly met a distant friend for long time we talked for briefly 30 minutes and I didn't mention any life event of mine or whatever but he just ranodmly said "anon why are you so pathetic and stuck with your fatty existence now? you used to be cool" I just stuttered and stuttered and mumbled and wasn't able to give a proper answer we ended up talking awkwardly for like 3 more mins then he said he gotta go