>>20354124One of my closest friends is about 5'7" tall, probably weighs around 190 - 195 pounds and isn't very lean. He exercises, but he's still chubby with no ab definition. He has a regular blue-collar job as a bricklayer. He isn't very intelligent either. He's the epitome of a normie.
He's getting married soon to a very attractive woman and they've been together for 6 years. She's pretty cool, they've bought a house together and they'll probably start having kids within a couple more years.
You know why? He has a personality. He's confident and fun to be around (although his stupidity and immaturity can get irritating). He's good at art and overall he's not a bad guy.
Most men that are incels are lacking in the personality department, not the looks or wealth department. You need to get out of your comfort zone and approach women. Try to be someone that other people want to be around because you're confident, funny and interesting. It'll work wonders for you.