>>20371396>I don't understandYou're not supposed to. Don't listen to or pay attention to women. They don't value speech beyond words that make them feel good inside, they don't have any sense of honor or valor or comrade, they don't care about your feelings, they don't want you to have feelings beyond the feelings they have and they only do empathy for kids, particularly theirs. Unless they have a serious mental issue and their inevitable interactions with kids will be problematic regardless, just watch her around kids before getting her pregnant - if she's in the slightest way bitchy at all, it's a waste of time. Instead, aim for a woman who shows noticeable patience with kids, who is very engaged and who is willing to entertain their childlike antics.
Anyway, you're wasting your time listening to women in any way. Ignore the things they say beyond when you're asking them questions or exploring her boundaries. In this case, you'll instead pay very careful attention to her body language and the words she uses. Treat her like a dog in these situations; always be firm, always respect whatever she or her body says and if you notice anything weird, press her on it. Just like you would with a dog, being firm is a necessity, as not doing so would spoil the dog. In the same way, you should always be watching for signs in these moments and "training her" (like a puppy) to do things you enjoy or not do things you don't enjoy. Finally, if you notice anything weird, always explore it carefully. Is she smiling at other guys so much because she's nervous and feminine, or is she acting that way because she has no respect for you? If you think it's the latter, talk to her about it, set clear boundaries and be firm with your "corrections". If you say you're not going to take something that she does anymore, you have to mean it or she'll lose all respect for you overnight.
tl;dr women say a lot of shit but most of it is meaningless and nothing to bother yourself over
