I wish it was possible to deactivate the region of the brain that is responsible for the constant desire to get a woman. I would be so liberating to truly, a 100% not give a shit, but its hard. A single smile from a beautiful woman and its like weeks of work trying to cultivate this turned into ashes. I've seen men ruin their lives and career over some pussy, like there's this one musician that I love, he had an incredibly career and was entirely self-made, and he became a shadow of himself once his gf left him. its truly a curse for men.

On a completely unrelated note, I have this theory that in some mentally fragile individuals where these desires get far too strong for far too long, the brain gets messed up and starts confusing wanting to "get" a girlfriend with wanting to "be" a girlfriend, hence how you end up with trannies. Nobody can get a gf while simultaneously you get this boom in the amount of people trooning out out there.