>>20437563Life gave this man a choice. Learn from Sam, or try to clown on him and end up beclowned. It strikes me at Ian must not have ever had a positive male influence in his life, and so when he was confronted with one in adulthood, he reacted incorrectly. Understandable, but mistaken.
If he had a real coach and real friends who cared about him, he never would have lost that fight or become involved with the horrible woman. But, sadly, in many cases, we have the friends we deserve based on our character.
May God bless Ian, I wish him well.