>>20446506I don’t really think about the fancy stuff of “good friend” or “bad friend”, it’s just positives and negatives for me. Will crossing a friend bring me more positives then negatives? Yes? Great, do it. No? Then don’t do it. Of course, I’m not a feelingless beast, I also take into account how much I like the person. But, liking a person means that you are happy around them, which is a positive. So even then, it’s still positives and negatives.
The more that I think about it, the more I do infact realize that people around me ARE just doing the same thing as myself. Honestly, I think I might just not care. Their kindness IS vicious, and I know it, but I just ignore those feelings.
After all, to ignore those feelings makes me happier, and that’s a net positive.
