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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 12:43:05 No.20577560 View View Reply Original Report

>mfw another one of my friends got married a few days ago
>mfw I look at the photos from their wedding they posted on Facebook
>mfw I have never even held a woman's hand
Yeah, I think it's safe to say things aren't going to get any better

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 12:44:48 No.20577561 Report

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>>20577560
Just talk to girls littlest bro.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 12:53:08 No.20577562 Report

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>mfw friend has a son now

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 12:58:26 No.20577563 Report

Quoted By: >>20577595

you can still always radicalize lol
you have nothing left to lose no? :)

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:07:07 No.20577564 Report

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>>20577560
I went to Russian facebook (vk) and looked through some of my old friends. One of my friends from childhood already married for several years and made a baby in 2022...
About half of my friends are married. And 2 couples from them wait for a child...
>mfw I have never even held a woman's hand
Same.

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:08:43 No.20577565 Report

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>>20577560
>mfw when my friend got married a few days ago

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:09:54 No.20577566 Report

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>>20577560
take the homopill

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:10:55 No.20577567 Report

Quoted By: >>20577568 >>20577582 >>20577587

>>20577560
Virgins severely overrate women and romantic/sexual relationships. Believe me, if you found a girlfriend right now, you'd start hating her within a few weeks and wishing you were alone again. Women are annoying as fuck and sex hardly compensates for having to deal with them everyday, especially if you spent years watching porn beforehand.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:11:51 No.20577568 Report

Quoted By: >>20577593 >>20577610

>>20577567
This. Go ask older men in your family if getting married was worth it. Women make your life a living hell.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:12:49 No.20577569 Report

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>>20577560
Some of my friends also got married and even had children but I don't really care. I don't find their wives hot enough anyway. I might be an incel but I still have standards

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:14:25 No.20577570 Report

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>>20577560
if you didn't get invited to your friend's wedding and instead had to watch the pictures afterwards there are other serious problems underneath, try talking to all people and then women will start talking to you, they don't like people who don't interact with anyone

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:44:50 No.20577571 Report

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>>20577560
Women are scary as fuck. I've never had any positive experience with any girl I tried to get romantically involved with and they destroyed my self esteem each time. should I change approach and go to them at my all time low so I can't fall further? But something tells me that the abyss is deeper then I think

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:46:43 No.20577572 Report

Quoted By: >>20577574 >>20577575

>>20577560
where have all the polish women gone ?

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:48:26 No.20577573 Report

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Wait until you are in your 30s and while your peers will be already married with kids you will notice how your younger acquaintances get married right and left too.
It is a little bit surreal feeling but makes me feel good, knowing that people around me possibly have found their better halves.

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:49:19 No.20577574 Report

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>>20577572

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:49:59 No.20577575 Report

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>>20577572
To greener pastures (ones with higher concentration of BBCs/square meter)

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:50:01 No.20577576 Report

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>>20577560
Yeah, some of my old classmates already have children, when I stopped at a mental development of a 14 year old.
I really ought to kill myself already.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:50:21 No.20577577 Report

Quoted By: >>20577578 >>20577580

>>20577571
go without expectations
it's not about being at the bottom, it's about not expecting stuff from people
if you're not expecting anything from anyone, they can't dissapoint you
that's how I think when I drive and I never get mad at retarded people I stumble upon while driving
but also try to generally give your best shot
I hate to give the muh videogames example but take it like going against a soulsborne boss, you're probably getting killed and you'll have to try again but still try your best and don't take it too seriously if it fails, just learn from it and move on to the next try.
don't harbor hate, hate consumes too much energy, doesn't let you concentrate and usually ends up deflecting blame onto others instead of thinking what did you do wrong
are there shitty women? yes, as many as men, still hating is not a good approach.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:54:09 No.20577578 Report

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>>20577577
I noticed this subhuman loves giving advices on relationships, fuck off pig, i anyone wanted animal’s opinion they would go to the zoo

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 13:56:07 No.20577579 Report

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>>20577578
extremely bitter post dude, c'mon stop pitying yourself

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:08:19 No.20577580 Report

Quoted By: >>20577586

>>20577577
I get the vidya analogy as I played the series, but the stakes are way different. I cannot take rejection with the same confidence, maybe after a hundred women it will be different, but as of now it's not realistic. Plus imagine failing multiple times and never winning once, that's demoralising.
I can't hate them no matter how hard I try, because my philosophy is a lot like yours in a way: I believe you're responsible for what happens to you as long as it's within your control.
Were I able to hate them instead of myself, I'd be swimming in pussy.
I know very very well what I did wrong, that is being soft, being unable to be selfish, falling in love before them, or even not being fit, tall, witty and handsome enough. But I've been unable to change my loser faggot personality in years and I don't see how it could now. I feel like it's who I am and I have no idea on how to mould myself differently after all this time. Working out didn't change anything, getting a job neither. I just wanted to be accepted as I am for fucks same

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:11:07 No.20577581 Report

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>>20577560
BBC has taken all women

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:16:33 No.20577582 Report

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>>20577567
I'm touch starved not a horny coomer

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:18:48 No.20577583 Report

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>>20577560
Just cut contact with everyone and leave the continent. In 2-3 years, I'm going to do that myself.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:19:54 No.20577584 Report

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>>20577560
to koniec
it was always over

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:20:23 No.20577585 Report

Quoted By: >>20577614

>>20577560
>mfw niggas be posting about they friends and acting like they incels

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:25:05 No.20577586 Report

Quoted By: >>20577588 >>20577590

>>20577580
bro if you're not, lets say, a gym rat, stop trying to go after girls who are into gym rats
I'm not a football fan so those girls who upload tiktoks using football teams t shirts and dancing will never be part of the girls I can attract, I like reading and talking about movies so that's the place I go to to get girls
I'd lie if I tell you I turn heads when I enter a room, but I can maintain a conversation and many girls have fallen for me after a long afternoon of just talking and laughing.
I know too well what you mean about falling in love easily, I was like you when I was younger, it's a hard one to get over but the more girls who could be a potential partner you talk to in the daily the less probable will be for you to think of just one as "the one"
talk to more girls, and open yourself to more types of girls, sometimes one gets too obsessed on one type of girl.
I like your outlook on life, you have potencial dude.
I'm not tall, there are girls who don't care about that.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:26:36 No.20577587 Report

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>>20577567
This but maybe porn has fried my brain. It's nice to share life with someone though

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:26:50 No.20577588 Report

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>>20577586
you're 15 and posting cosmo drivel
shut the fuck up
underage b&

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:29:56 No.20577589 Report

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>>20577588
I'm 40 bro

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:32:21 No.20577590 Report

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>>20577586
I'm not focusing on "a specific type of girl" at least consciously. I'm not going after super hot popular bitches either. I'm not even that young anymore, I'm close to 25, I don't browse shit tok or whatever, I don't use instagram.
My main issue is that I don't know what a relationship is and how people get together at all as I've been denied that. I'm being myself and it seems like it's not the way to do it, but I'm also oblivious on how to change myself for the better, and not just for bitches.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 14:51:13 No.20577591 Report

Quoted By: >>20577592 >>20577611

>>20577560
>mfw HS crush got married 5 years ago
>she popped out a third child this year
>still look stunning till this day
>posted picture with her chad husband celebrating her anniversary at one of the most luxurious restaurant in town
>meanwhile I'm still a NEET
It doesn't even matter if I had mustered the courage to ask out her back in HS. Game's rigged m8.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:10:34 No.20577592 Report

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>>20577591
Literally me but secondary

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:12:10 No.20577593 Report

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>>20577568
Older men are retards who blame others for all the shit they do.
So do women

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:17:01 No.20577594 Report

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>>20577560
>MFW i ghosted every single person other than my parents

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:17:10 No.20577595 Report

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>>20577563
radicalize into what?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:19:20 No.20577596 Report

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>>20577560
>wanted to propose to my gf last summer
>planned a nice romantic holiday on a picturesque island in the med
>she starts being cold and distant about a month beforehand
>decide not to do it
>breaks up with me in January

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:20:13 No.20577597 Report

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I'm 28 and all my peers are getting married, having kids, serious careers and owning homes while I'm renting a spare room in my friend's house and watching youtube all day and have never been in a real relationship in my life.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:22:07 No.20577598 Report

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>>20577595
A beautiful incel butterfly that shoots up his local grocery store or something

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:23:49 No.20577599 Report

Quoted By: >>20577606

>>20577560
Holding a woman's hand is really nothing, but holding the hand of someone who's romantically interested in you is just different.
Anyways I've basically given up on romantic relationships because I'm exhausted as is from dealing with people, I'll accept blow jobs or quickies from the cute young women at parties tho

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:32:23 No.20577600 Report

Quoted By: >>20577603 >>20577604 >>20577605

>>20577560
Depends. If you're in a cycle where you run out of people to meet then yeah you're fucked but otherwise it gets easier with every woman you encounter, even if things go nowhere.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:33:15 No.20577601 Report

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>friends

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:36:04 No.20577602 Report

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>>20577560
> mfw I have never even held a woman's hand
But why do you care? What's so important about that? There are so much more you can do in life than being with a girl. I can safely say that if you value your free time and interests, then a girlfriend is not what you want or need.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:36:41 No.20577603 Report

Quoted By: >>20577607

>>20577600
This is only true if you actually initiate conversation and show interest

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:37:38 No.20577604 Report

Quoted By: >>20577607

>>20577600
>otherwise it gets easier with every woman you encounter
The thing is that after a certain age, the quality of women you meet starts to rapidly decline since most of the high-quality women are already married and have kids.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:37:56 No.20577605 Report

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>>20577600
>If you're in a cycle where you run out of people to meet then yeah you're fucked
that is me, my circle now is only leftover incel men

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:42:38 No.20577606 Report

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>>20577599
>but holding the hand of someone who's romantically interested in you is just different.

>mfw a HS girl asked me to hold her hand and she embrace me during the last day of camp
>completely oblivious to her because I was not romantically interested in her
>moved away to a different school and never see her again
>be a wizard ever since
You don't know how good you have it until you lost it boys.

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:51:15 No.20577607 Report

Quoted By: >>20577608 >>20577609

>>20577603
People itt seem interested in women
>>20577604
That's fair. At some point in your 30's you gotta choose between step-dad or cat haver but it's not impossible now that everyone has kids way later than they used to.
>>20577605
That's grim af, hopefully serbian women are okay with age gap

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 15:53:27 No.20577608 Report

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>>20577607
they are probably ok with age gap, but I don't meet any women whatsoever

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:02:32 No.20577609 Report

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>>20577607
Seem interested but they will not take an active role.
They are socially awkward and anxious, it's easiest done when slightly drunk honest.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:03:04 No.20577610 Report

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>>20577568
Married men telling you marriage sucks is like billionaires telling you money doesn't solve all your problems.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:07:48 No.20577611 Report

Quoted By: >>20577613 >>20577615

>>20577591
That last bit isn't true bro it's entirely possible that if you had asked her out it would've inspired you to get your life together to provide for her. I know a lot of dudes who were shitheads until they had a family to give them meaning. Men need a purpose and are hardwired to provide. Plus the confidence boost you get if she had said yes and fucked you would've fundamentally altered the course of your life, making you less scared of women, and more confident interacting with other men as equals. Anyways I guess my point is the game isn't rigged and you should've asked her out, sorry.

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:13:46 No.20577612 Report

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friends?

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:15:28 No.20577613 Report

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>>20577611
>Men need a purpose and are hardwired to provide
Fuck you. I was about to go to sleep.

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 16:56:09 No.20577614 Report

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>>20577585
THIS SO MUCH

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 17:14:47 No.20577615 Report

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>>20577611
now it's truly over

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 17:30:49 No.20577616 Report

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>>20577560
Cool blog.

Anonymous

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 17:54:11 No.20577617 Report

Quoted By: >>20577620 >>20577621

>Eid
>maids ask me to drive them for the supermarket
>my father allows it
>first time they leave the house in a year
>super excited sitting in my Land Cruiser
>giggling laughing and having the time of their life
>walk into the market
>they can barely contain their excitement
>couldn't stand it so I went back to my car
>just sitting by myself watching YouTube
>they show up
>get in the car
>"Thank you so much, anon. This for you"
>hands me a single crispy cream donut
>I never wanted to kill myself more than I do now

How do Filipinos manage to be so happy when they're so poor all the time

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 17:56:10 No.20577618 Report

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>>20577560
I was invited to engagement party on Saturday, a friend from high school is going to marry some 17 years old zoomer girl, and I am 30 years old and still a virgin

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 17:56:19 No.20577619 Report

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>>20577560
I was recently a bestman at a friend's wedding. It was cool but I didn't realize how much a bestman does before I agreed lol

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 18:00:41 No.20577620 Report

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>>20577617
>>first time they leave the house in a year
You keep their passports in a safe, don't you?

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 18:02:16 No.20577621 Report

Quoted By: >>20577635

>>20577617
>How do Filipinos manage to be so happy when they're so poor all the time
It's the little things

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Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 18:03:24 No.20577622 Report

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>>20577560
my last friend got married and moved to the other side of the country

Anonymous

Anonymous Tue 18 Jun 2024 18:07:21 No.20577623 Report

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>>20577583
>if you are lonely just make yourself lonelier somewhere else!

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:CwceOf5g Tue 18 Jun 2024 18:10:22 No.20577635 Report

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>>20577621
Frieren my beloved

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Anonymous ID:QR1sLkMP Tue 18 Jun 2024 19:26:10 No.20578444 Report

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>this nig is okay with interracial porn threads but not /int/ related stories

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Anonymous ID:vk5lRGGO Tue 18 Jun 2024 20:09:34 No.20578654 Report

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Yeah all this "zoomer men are le more lonely than ever" posts and statistics seem like bullshit, most people I knew from elementary and high school were engaged, married, had a kid, and even the kinda weird friends I have got ton of things going for them and long term gfs. I feel like the last subhuman sometimes

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