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Unironically, this is what people (especially women) have been brainwashed into thinking is normal.
No, you can't just have a normal relationship where you and your gf work during the week, then hangout on the beach, at the park, or the bowling alley on the weekends. That's boring.
No, your gf can't become a housewife after you have children. You will not have the white picket fence and 2 - 3 vacations per year. That's boring.
If you're not in a relationship with a BPD wacko that's been ran-through, if you're not flying bitches out to Dubai, if you don't own a yacht or a luxury sports car, if you're not an internet celebrity, then you're boring.
Toxic/Hectic/Chaotic = Fun
Good/Relaxing/Stable = Boring