>>20626383You're all attributing characteristics of what men find attractive in women, and thinking that's how women think about men, when it's actually very different. Looks of course play a role, but confidence, emotional maturity, experience and intelligence through experience create a sum that most women look for in a man, and that comes with age. You have to take care of your body and find the balance of youthfulness and wisdom, and that is the 30's. Though I don't expect the coping younger kids on here to understand that yet. As a 33 year old man with some means, a decent career who stays fit, I've dated a lot of younger women early to mid twenties since I became single again a couple years ago, and the number one thing they complain about is that guys their age still act like children. Now, would a younger guy who is better looking AND who had the emotional intelligence to match mog me? Absolutely. But the reality is that 90% of them, myself included during that time of my life, are retarded.