>>20694740Happiness is relative.
Your standards are set in the wrong place.
For example.
If you set your life goal (as a child) to run a very large company, but never achieve it. Then you don't live a life of happiness, you live a life of either eternal striving/struggling or despair as your goal slips away in time.
If you set your goal as enjoying life, then you can immediately enjoy your current situation, whatever it is (in most cases).
Your own goals and achieving them (or not) is what determines your happiness.
Test it yourself: set an easy goal for yourself (such as beating some level on a video game), and you will notice that you will be happy when you achieve it.
In terms of relationships, these women have the same problem as you: their goals aren't set correctly, they will eternally strive for what they can never achieve.
