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Anonymous ID:n0iY8Dkp Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:21:49 No.20703777 View View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>20703791 >>20703836

How do I stop getting so attached to my friend? I know it’s freaking him out but I can’t help myself sometimes. I just want a friend but my dumb brain keeps making me get obsessed with him

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:E51wp9cZ Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:23:15 No.20703783 Report

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ruin everything

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:tj/pQ7W1 Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:25:21 No.20703791 Report

Quoted By: >>20703798

>>20703777
I have the same problem but on the receiving end

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:n0iY8Dkp Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:26:23 No.20703798 Report

Quoted By: >>20703816

>>20703791
Okay. What would you like your friend to do?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:03Q90zdF Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:27:58 No.20703802 Report

Quoted By: >>20703809

are you gay

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:E51wp9cZ Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:28:26 No.20703805 Report

Quoted By: >>20703809

abstracting the problem by asking someone other than the actual person it applies to may make it worse, just ask your friend

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:n0iY8Dkp Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:30:56 No.20703809 Report

Quoted By: >>20703815

>>20703802
No, I’m just prison gay. Missed out on teenage love so I get obsessively attached to anyone who gives me attention.
>>20703805
That’ll just make things more uncomfortable.
>Hey, friend, I think about you all day every day. Can you give me any advice?
How would you react if your friend just randomly messaged you that out of nowhere?

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:E51wp9cZ Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:32:23 No.20703815 Report

Quoted By: >>20703822

>>20703809
you're already uncomfortable, evidently
and you probably think your behavior makes your friend uncomfortable
I'd be fine being asked that if it made you feel better and you were my friend or whatever, the hell is a friend that doesn't have basic respect

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:tj/pQ7W1 Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:32:59 No.20703816 Report

Quoted By: >>20703822

>>20703798
stop thinking about me and instead get a real hobby, and think about it instead

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:qFsbNOer Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:34:45 No.20703822 Report

Quoted By: >>20703830 >>20703860

>>20703815
Maybe. I might ask him sometime. He’s put up with me this long.
>>20703816
I’m trying

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:E51wp9cZ Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:36:37 No.20703830 Report

Quoted By: >>20703841

>>20703822
it's better to do it sooner rather than later as it may worsen over time.. and maybe like the other guy said, find a distraction or something if you really don't wanna face your friend with that question..

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:P5V2o37y Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:38:39 No.20703836 Report

Quoted By: >>20703841

>>20703777
find a girl to get autistic about instead, it's much more socially acceptable and doesn't make you sound like a huge fag

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:qFsbNOer Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:39:34 No.20703841 Report

Quoted By: >>20703843 >>20703846

>>20703830
That’s probably what it is. I need a hobby. I’ve done nothing but think about him since the day he first talked to me six months ago. I need to give him some space, for my own sake if nobody else’s.
Thanks, anon. I’ll try my best.
>>20703836
Girls scare me

Anonymous

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Anonymous ID:E51wp9cZ Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:40:34 No.20703843 Report

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>>20703841
have fun finding something to do..

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:P5V2o37y Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:41:06 No.20703846 Report

Quoted By:

>>20703841
more for me

Anonymous

Anonymous ID:tj/pQ7W1 Fri 05 Jul 2024 00:46:25 No.20703860 Report

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>>20703822
When that person told me his feelings I became disgusted of him forever
I think you should try to lower your amount of interactions with him until your feelings end and you can cut contact.

If he's straight he will NEVER return your love for him.

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