My wife and I are high school sweethearts dating since sophomore year. We are 36 and been married 14 years. Only people we ever been with/had sex to this point. We have 3 sons ages 7, 5, and 3. Life has been difficult. I work as a forklift driver in a CVS warehouse and a weekend shift in meat department at Safeway. 7 days of working. She stays at home and is exhausted.

Now she comes to me saying she has been watching a lot of porn and wants to be bukaked. Like where guys blast their mayonnaise on her. I told her no I don't want to cheat. She says I owe this to her because she is too stressed out she needs to live out her fantasies. She wants bukake, to do blow bangs and gang bangs. Wants us to start an onlyfans where I film while she is fucked. How do I save my marriage? Like what in the actual fuck? She always has been a conservative introverted nerd. I never seen this side of her.

I am willing to do whatever it takes to save my marriage as long as other people aren't involved in our sex life.