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Quoted By: >>20784311 >>20786812 >>20788691
As boyfriends we ought to lay some ground rules for proper behavior.
1. Physical affection: Give her kisses throughout the day, hug her tightly and speak softly and confidently in her ear how much you love her. Use physical intimacy to affirm to her how much she is loved.
2. Take interest in her interests: This doesn’t mean pretending that you’re just as enthusiastic about Gravity Falls or finger painting as she is, it simply means being there for her when she has joy. Her joy will be your joy when you support her in her interests. Be there for her when she is happy not just when she is sad.
3. Don’t be overly analytical when she is venting: Understand that girls (and people in general) often don’t when cold answers thrown at them. Often times she’ll want you to be there for her emotionally. After that you may give her advice if reason tells you to do so.
4. Be a good provider: Often times we think only in terms of bigger and more expensive but she’ll appreciate a thoughtful and personable gift more. Always be sure to gift her presents in the spirit of love.
5. Understand that she’s a fallible and imperfect person: People deserve to be treated as they are not who we want them to be. You can and should still love her as highly as you do just use temperance on how you can best give her your love.
1. Physical affection: Give her kisses throughout the day, hug her tightly and speak softly and confidently in her ear how much you love her. Use physical intimacy to affirm to her how much she is loved.
2. Take interest in her interests: This doesn’t mean pretending that you’re just as enthusiastic about Gravity Falls or finger painting as she is, it simply means being there for her when she has joy. Her joy will be your joy when you support her in her interests. Be there for her when she is happy not just when she is sad.
3. Don’t be overly analytical when she is venting: Understand that girls (and people in general) often don’t when cold answers thrown at them. Often times she’ll want you to be there for her emotionally. After that you may give her advice if reason tells you to do so.
4. Be a good provider: Often times we think only in terms of bigger and more expensive but she’ll appreciate a thoughtful and personable gift more. Always be sure to gift her presents in the spirit of love.
5. Understand that she’s a fallible and imperfect person: People deserve to be treated as they are not who we want them to be. You can and should still love her as highly as you do just use temperance on how you can best give her your love.
