>>20817878stop thinking about what ifs, if you are sexually attracted to men you are gay, that's it, liking things up your ass doesn't necessarily mean you are gay (pegging exists for instance)
the reason people say stuff like "putting dildos up your ass is gay" is because, usually, the only people who put stuff up their asses are gay people or women, nowadays sexual stuff is more "accepted" if you will so something being gay is not as clear cut anymore
this is all my opinion btw
