>>2082085I'm good at initiating conversation, it's a natural ability of mine... But even *I* need the right time and place-- the right context.
If I were you, I'd focus on relaxing. These people aren't a threat (which you unknowingly view them as, because in your young mind, when a woman approaches you, you immediately wonder if this will lead to sex sometime in the future. This creates pressure for you, because you're a virgin and insecure about your sexuality.)
Not everything *has* to lead to sex, the type of social interaction you describe is very myriad, almost incoherent, So it's no wonder you feel a bit baffled about what to do.
Just be honest, shoot straight from the hip, no bullshit or fancy tricks required. You'll probably never see them again, anyways.
