>>20922913i did that, for a while. we graduated college and went our separate ways. then, when i needed a place to stay on a trip back home, and i stayed with him for a week, i found out he was abused by his ex so badly, he developed a drinking problem that he hated. so i stuck around, helped out. and then, his boss, his shifty, good intending boss, told me things he said in confidence. like that he's been into me since college. so, i may have brought that intel straight to him and caused a bit of drama, but the point is we're fucking now, and he's doing better.