>>20977369I'm older now, but when I was dating I discovered an interesting phenomena. Towards the end of the date when it came time to seal the deal... women would call it a night. I had some theories about what was happening, the times we lived in, feminism, playing hard to get. Often I made assumption that she jest wasn't into me, and I would break things off or ignore her.
One day I asked outright, what's the deal, and I was surprised by the answer.
She said "I've already had 4 orgasms tonight, just from being with you, I couldn't handle sex right now" she continued "let's skip the date next time, and go straight to the bed"
Speaking with other women, got the same answer.
Orgasm for women truly is a mental thing, more than physical.
I was cursed with being a chad, too charming, driving women over the edge, to orgasm exhaustion barely touching them.
Nice girls, that is. Sluts are a different story, but not what I was looking for.
Be glad that you're not a 10/10
and remember female orgasms aren't about sex, it's all in their head.