>>20993226> will cheat because fomoFuck sake. I'm in this exact situation. I got love bombed by this chubby chick. I told her a relation wouldn't work because I did not find her very attractive. She lost weight very fast and started to look decent enough for me to find her attractive. Fast forward 3.5 years and she got fit and is now super attractive. Decided to talk more frequently about an open relationship talking about the benefits of me enjoying other girls etc. I do genuinely look good esp for my age (28), I'm muscular and still look young. But I told her that I don't care about random sex and that it isn't even really that good. I care about relationships,commitment, loyalty and improving each other. Eventually we got into a bug fight upon which I suggested a relationship break for 3 weeks in which she could do whatever she wanted with others. Of course the whore did and asap went into romance with this other dude and build a mini relationship. I hate her for this and 2 weeks after the break I told her I would end things with her. Then she got very emotional, caring and still tries to make these old times come back.
I'm sure she regrets what she did because she never had a lot of sex and wants to be with me. I think she will be loyal. But I'm not sure if I even want to be in a relation with this person anymore. It's a tough choice. I also invested 4.5 years of my life into this.