Guys in modern society need to act energetic, happy and strong to get cuddling/hugs (after sex) which is important for emotional health, but when you are depressed you can not get in that energetic state, so no cuddling for you and the cycle of misery repeats itself

For society, men feelings should not exist, and men should either be cold hard emotional fucks, or happy energetic sexy jerks

It is so unfair