>>21060325Into all cultures. Marriage was never for love, is about inheritance, money, political both at local community and wider.
This is why it was more ok for men to cheat, their kids, bastards, wouldnt inherit, but a woman having kids out of wedlock due to cheating meant inheritance went to a different bloodline, thus a problem (in patrilineal socities, in mixed or matrilineal this wasnt a problem at all)
Both men and women were expected to have paramours and lovers, many times thry were aware of it.
It was only ever a problem if it was found out by outsiders, not by itself.
Stop watching so many disney movies, you arent a princess and the real world is messy.
