>>21065480Very close. And not in that fake and gay fortune teller vague way. I date all types of women- race, background, status, good history, bad history- but never really worry about how things are perceived. I can be rather intense, but almost no one knows this because I function normally, understanding people but not really participating or engaging meaningfully with them outside very close friends and intimate partners. I am honest and not duplicitous because I don't need to behave any other way. In long term relationships I inevitably become restless, feeling trapped, and either end things or become so withdrawn their hand is forced. I'm getting old and am bracing for solitude, which is my natural state of existence, but again, few people know this.